Munch

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A munch is a BDSM social event, usually in a public place---such as a cafe---involving food, talk about BDSM, but with no overt play.

At a play party the focus can be on the opportunities to engage in BDSM play in an environment and locale equipped to support it. Typically, play parties are held in private premises with, perhaps, ready access to BDSM equipment, such A-Frames, spanking benches, and a selection of floggers, canes, etc. Because of this there may be less opportunity or even motivation to simply chat and get to know other people. And, indeed, the hosts of some play parties like to maintain a party atmosphere and play loud music which can make conversation impossible.

A munch, on the other hand, provides an opportunity to get to know other BDSM folk where there is no focus on play. Instead, the people are all there is, and while there may be some D&s interactions, more overt or extreme play is not going to occur.

A munch is often the first stepping stone into the wider BDSM community for many newcomers because being held in public it is often less confronting than a full-blown play party. It allows the newcomers to meet people away from play, ask questions, and feel comfortable before taking that next step.