BDSMer

BDSMer is a colloquial term meaning someone who engages in BDSM activities, dynamics, or relationships; i.e., someone who does BDSM.

BDSMer is a casual, catch-all term and gives no indication of the type of role, types of activities, or the types of relationships in which the person participates. It can be contrasted with more common terms, such as dominant or slave, which are applied to people more specifically.

See also

• Top
• Bottom
• Dominant
• Submissive
• Master
• Slave