Practical Predicament Bondage
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Predicament bondage is a style of restraint or bondage in which a submissive only has a limited range of positions they can adopt, each of which has some penalty associated with it, such as being painful, being embarrassing or humiliating, or being tiring. The predicament is along the lines of "finding the lesser of all evils" where the "evils" are the possible positions and where each possible position has something going against it. The challenge then is for the submissive to make the most of the situation in which their dominant has placed them using their skill, intelligence, physical strength, and endurance.
In contrast to many other forms of bondage, predicament bondage requires that the submissive have some freedom of movement. If they were to have no freedom of movement, then there would be no challenge because the submissive would have no options.
In general, the dominant creates a scenario which allows the submissive a limited choice of positions (frequently just two), none of which are completely comfortable, satisfying, pain-free, or penalty-free.
In any predicament bondage scenario, there must be things which motivate the submissive. The situations their dominant creates for them usually have to do with a conflict between some or all of the elements below:
- Relieving fatigue,
- Achieving a personal goal,
- Pleasing their dominant,
- Avoiding pain,
- Feeling comfortable,
- Obeying an order,
- Avoiding punishment,
- Gaining praise or some other reward from their dominant, or
- Avoiding humiliation or embarrassment.
How this conflict is used is another factor in the design of a predicament bondage scenario. Is it going to be constructed so that the bottom or the submissive might "win"? In other words, is there a chance that the submissive will solve the dilemma and completely free themselves? If this is the case, then there can be a deep sense of achievement, particularly if they see that escaping the predicaments pleases their partner. This can be very engaging and rewarding for both the dominant and the submissive, where the dominant sets the challenge and sees his or her submissive rise to that challenge.
A predicament bondage scenario can also be designed so the submissive or bottom can't escape, but must simply suffer until they are released; or there may be multiple predicaments and each time the submissive escapes one predicament the dominant immediately adds another. There can also be a sense of achievement in this latter, but more often both these types of scenario cause the submissive to feel helpless and vulnerable. This can also, of course, a useful outcome leading to surrender.
Finally, like many BDSM activities, predicament bondage provides a context in which power and control can be explored. There can be challenges and defeat, and a submissive can easily feel themselves being in a situation where their dominant partner has them completely under control, and the dominant can see and experience their control of the predicaments and helplessness of their submissive.
See also military interrogation.
A couple of simple predicament bondage scenarios
Figure 1 shows a good example of simple predicament bondage. The submissive has two possible positions. The first is where she has the weight of her legs pulling painfully on her nipples, or the second is where she is uncomfortably holding her legs in the air. One position involves pain, the other fatigue. Holding her legs up is not something she can sustain and she'll likely end up switching back and forth every minute or so between enduring nipple pain to rest her legs and enduring leg fatigue to relieve her nipples.
Figure 2 is a vertical variation of the first example and again shows two-position predicament bondage where the submissive either has to stand on her toes to release the tension on her nipples, or has to have her nipples painfully pulled upwards as she rests her feet and ankles.
Predicaments involving cock, balls, or labia
- A male submissive can be restrained so that he must remain on his feet, but his genitals are tied by a short rope to an anchor or heavy weight resting on the floor. Thus, he can either stay uncomfortably crouched so that there is no pressure on his genitals, or he can stand up straight and have his genitals being pulled sharply downwards.
- A variation of the above is to attach clamps to a woman's labia and do a similar trick with rope or cord which is not long enough to allow her to stand up straight. This isn't always as effective as with a man because labia clamps can usually pull off too easily. This isn't such a risk with testicles.
- Either of the above, but using a spreader bar between the submissive's ankles as the anchor for the rope or cord. This way the submissive can lie on their back.
Predicaments involving muscle or joint strain
- A submissive is tied in such a way that no matter how they move, uncomfortable pressure is applied to the joints of one of their arms or legs. I.e., moving to relieve pressure being applied to one limb causes pressure to be applied to another.
Predicaments involving ice or other unpleasant sensations
- A submissive is tied naked and spreadeagled on the floor and a bag of ice is placed under her back. She can either rest on the ice, or she can strain to arch her back and hold herself above the ice.
- A submissive is instructed to hold her arm (or calf) so that it is horizontal. A burning candle sitting in a small cap or a small lid from a bottle is placed on her arm. While she keeps her arm horizontal, any wax from the candle drips into the cap. If she moves too much, the candle will fall and hot wax will run onto her arm. Make sure you check that the wax temperature isn't too hot before you try this.
Predicaments involving holding the same position
- A submissive has their hands tied behind their back. They are then stood face to a wall with their nose against the wall. A coin is placed between their nose and the wall and they are instructed to keep the coin there. This can be made a little more interesting by putting a drop of massage oil, or a dab of petroleum jelly, on the tip of the submissive's nose.
- A submissive is tied in an uncomfortable position, possibly as part of a bigger predicament, and is given a full-to-the-brim class of water to hold. They have to keep as much water in the glass as possible.
Fatigue, pain, embarrassment, and humiliation
Four frequent elements in predicament bondage scenarios are fatigue, pain, embarrassment, and humiliation. We've seen examples of the first two of these in the scenarios given above. Embarrassment and humiliation can also be very effective, particularly when your bottom is self-conscious and you are at a play party. Creating a situation where they must either be experiencing extreme discomfort physically, or be exposing or presenting themselves (naked) in such a way as to be highly embarrassing can be just as much a predicament for them as any other scenario.
For example, suspending your submissive by their arms and legs over a large dildo or plug which is on the cusp of penetrating them (anally, vaginally, or wherever), and which will penetrate them if they relax their arms or legs and allow their body to sink down, can be very humiliating for some people, particularly when there are friends of theirs watching and making comments.
While pain and fatigue are common elements of predicaments in predicament bondage, these need not be the only motivators. Punishment can also be one aspect of the predicament. However, if punishment is always the outcome then any submissive can become unenthusiastic or even bitter. There needs to be some likelihood or possibility of a good or rewarding outcome.
For example, failing to achieve a certain level of endurance, such as not being able to hold a certain position for a reasonable time, can be a reason for punishment. The submissive knows that if they reach that time then there will be no punishment, and maybe there'll even be reward or praise from their dominant.
The glass of water idea mentioned above can work well here. The amount of water remaining in the glass when the ropes are removed determines how many strokes of the cane the submissive receives: a full glass (no spills) means no strokes while an empty glass may mean six of the best.
Making an effort under orders
Another motivator in predicament bondage can simply be that the dominant has ordered the submissive to do it. For many service-oriented submissives this can be entirely sufficient, and they can get a real buzz out of striving to achieve more and more as part of their service.
Indeed, it can be the case that such a submissive relishes the opportunity to be challenged by their dominant and to grow and improve in their ability to respond effectively to the situations in which they're placed.
Having a goal to aim for, such as increasing their endurance, can be something that helps the submissive feel better about themselves and can even be something they use to measure their "submission".
Making an effort to please the dominant
Making an effort to please their partner can also be a powerful motivator for some submissives. Seeing the pleasure that they give their dominant by being both challenging and skilled at devising escapes from different predicaments can be very rewarding.
Planning predicament bondage
When planning predicament bondage you should work out in advance how many positions you are going to allow your submissive and what they'll experience in each. Remember that any of the following can be elements of effective predicament bondage:
- Embarrassment, and
Any of the situations I've mentioned in the scenarios above are good candidates, and as we've seen muscle strain and fatigue can be very effective parts of predicament bondage.
If you're doing a predicament bondage scene at a BDSM party you might be able to take this fact into account. Perhaps, make one of the positions involve the submissive having their backside stuck up in the air towards other guests. This isn't painful or physically uncomfortable, but may be embarrassing or humiliating.
Blindfolds can be a very effective element to predicament bondage. It adds a level of difficulty to most scenarios because the submissive needs to experiment and try things out to work out exactly the nature of the situation they're in before they can try to work their way out of it.
Another type of predicament bondage involves what can be called unrecoverable predicaments. These are situations where there are two possible positions. The initial position is, or becomes, very uncomfortable, unpleasant or painful. The second position is typically uncomfortable or painful, possibly more than the first. It may also simply be undesirable because the dominant has ordered the submissive to avoid it. Switching from the first position to the second is often easy, however it's also only one way. Once the submissive has changed to the second position they can't switch back.
For example, imagine a submissive who is tied vertically to a frame. Very heavy weights are attached to her nipples or labia using clamps, heavier than she could comfortably bear. However, the weights are also attached to a cord which she holds between her teeth. While she holds the cord in her teeth, the full force of the weights doesn't pull down on her nipples/labia. But once she lets go of the cord with her teeth, she can't get it back again because she is tied up. So, once her mouth or jaw become too fatigued holding the cord, she ends up in a whole world of other pain from the weights.
Another unrecoverable predicament could be the one shown in figure 3. The egg under the submissive's foot, once broken, can never be unbroken. There's also the small matter of cleaning up the mess, as well.
Finally, the example given above of the submissive, whose hands are tied behind her back, being told to hold a coin against a wall with her nose is another unrecoverable predicament. Once the coin drops, she can't put it back again.
If you're going to be using nipple clamps, it's a good idea to review the article on nipple torture for some comments about keeping nipples safe and healthy.
There is often a risk of muscle cramps, muscle strain and even joint dislocation in predicament bondage, especially when you have your submissive in an awkward position and they struggle. Keep this in mind when you're working out positions.
Perhaps even more than in an immobilising rope tie, it can be very important to include one or more ways of quickly releasing your submissive in your predicament bondage designs. A submissive may get themselves into a dangerous situation as they twist and turn in the ropes, or they may simply get a cramp from holding an awkward position. In any case, you need to be able to release them in a hurry. If nothing else, keep a pair of trauma shears handy.
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