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-	Changed: ~~Sunday~~, September 05, 2010	+	Changed: Monday, September 06, 2010

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-	~~Discomfort~~	+	Taking control
-	==========	+	==============

-	~~I have a theory that all D&s and S&M relationships revolve around~~	+	Before you can take control of someone, they must make that control over
-	~~discomfort imposed, typically by a dominant/master/mistress/bottom,~~	+	themselves available for you to take. This isn't necessarily a conscious
-	~~on a submissive/slave/bottom.~~	+	decision on their part and, if they are not experienced in such things,
-		+	is likely not to be conscious.
-	~~I once wrote a paper on this subject (called "Understanding Submission";~~	+
-	~~viewable at http://www.ozabis.info/undersub.html) where I spoke about~~	+
-	~~"pain, discomfort and restraint". I actually considered then, and still~~	+
-	do, that ~~pain and restraint were only forms of discomfort; pain being~~	+
-	~~extreme discomfort, and restraint being more mental discomfort than~~	+
-	~~physical~~.	+
-		+
-	I'~~ll give you some examples so you can see what I mean:~~	+
-		+
-	~~1) Flogging~~ and~~/or any sort of pain play involves~~, ~~by definition, pain,~~	+
-		+
-	~~2) Posture and voice training all impose restrictions and rules on the~~	+
-	~~submissive, thereby requiring them to behave in a way that~~ they ~~otherwise~~	+
-	~~would~~ not~~; this is discomfort~~,	+
-		+
-	~~3) Service. Again the submissive~~ is ~~required~~ to ~~behave in a way that is~~	+
-	~~not in their direct interest; more discomfort,~~	+
-		+
-	~~4) Bondage is simple restraint.~~	+
-		+
-	~~The key is that this discomfort is imposed on the submissive~~.	+
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BDSM and the law

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	In some jurisdictions the matter of intent is important and is taken into consideration when determining if some activity is legal or not. In other jurisdictions intent can be irrelevant.		In some jurisdictions the matter of intent is important and is taken into consideration when determining if some activity is legal or not. In other jurisdictions intent can be irrelevant.

-	We should note that the goal of some BDSM activities is to deliberately leave permanent marks. This can also fall afoul of the law. Marking includes [[tattooing]], [[scarification]] and other forms of [[body modification]]. In some jurisdictions these may be illegal if performed outside of appropriately registered and authorised premises, or when done by someone who is not registered or authorised to do so.	+	We should note that the goal of some BDSM activities is to deliberately leave permanent marks. This can also fall afoul of the law. Marking includes tattooing, [[scarification]] and other forms of [[body modification]]. In some jurisdictions these may be illegal if performed outside of appropriately registered and authorised premises, or when done by someone who is not registered or authorised to do so.

	It is wise to find out how the law in your local area views all of this, particularly if you plan on being in any way public with your BDSM life---such as joining the local pride parade in your leathers with your tied [[submissive]] in tow, or if you plan on doing any open-to-the-public workshops or demonstrations.		It is wise to find out how the law in your local area views all of this, particularly if you plan on being in any way public with your BDSM life---such as joining the local pride parade in your leathers with your tied [[submissive]] in tow, or if you plan on doing any open-to-the-public workshops or demonstrations.

Abuse

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-	In dictionary terms '''abuse''' is the bad use of, misuse of, perversion, or misapplication of a person or thing<ref>{{BiblioRef\|OED}}</ref>. When it occurs during [[BDSM]] [[activities]] or in BDSM [[~~relationships~~]] it can take some obvious and not-so-obvious forms.	+	In dictionary terms '''abuse''' is the bad use of, misuse of, perversion, or misapplication of a person or thing<ref>{{BiblioRef\|OED}}</ref>. When it occurs during [[BDSM]] [[activities]] or in BDSM [[relationship]]s it can take some obvious and not-so-obvious forms.

	== The affect of abuse on the victims ==		== The affect of abuse on the victims ==

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-	~~Candles~~	+	Discomfort
-	=======	+	==========

-	~~If it turns you on--or might turn you on--to drip molten wax from~~	+	I have a theory that all D&s and S&M relationships revolve around
-	a ~~burning candle onto the pink~~ and ~~delicate bits of your partner~~	+	discomfort imposed, typically by a dominant/master/mistress/bottom,
-	~~here are~~ a ~~couple of things to remember:~~	+	on a submissive/slave/bottom.

-	~~1) Test it out first~~ on ~~yourself~~. ~~Drip wax from the candle onto~~	+	I once wrote a paper on this subject (called "Understanding Submission";
-	~~the back~~ of ~~your own hand to work out the right height~~,	+	viewable at http://www.ozabis.info/undersub.html) where I spoke about
		+	"pain, discomfort and restraint". I actually considered then, and still
		+	do, that pain and restraint were only forms of discomfort; pain being
		+	extreme discomfort, and restraint being more mental discomfort than
		+	physical.

-	~~2) Some candles produce hotter wax than others. Always test new~~	+	I'll give you some examples so you can see what I mean:
-	~~types of candle on yourself. Beeswax, in particular, has a high~~	+
-	~~melting point and might best be avoided,~~	+

-	3) ~~Getting wax out~~ of ~~hair (eg. pubic) can be a hassle~~,	+	1) Flogging and/or any sort of pain play involves, by definition, pain,

-	4) ~~A thin layer of oil~~ on the ~~skin can make wax much easier~~ to	+	2) Posture and voice training all impose restrictions and rules on the
-	~~get off~~,	+	submissive, thereby requiring them to behave in a way that they otherwise
		+	would not; this is discomfort,

-	5) ~~The colouring and perfumes added to candles generally increase~~	+	3) Service. Again the submissive is required to behave in a way that is
-	the ~~wax temperature. Good advice~~ is to ~~stick to plain, uncoloured~~	+	not in their direct interest; more discomfort,
-	~~and unscented candles for the actual dripping~~,	+

-	6) ~~Don't set fire to your house accidentally~~.	+	4) Bondage is simple restraint.
		+
		+	The key is that this discomfort is imposed on the submissive.
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-	~~Respect~~	+	Candles
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-	~~Along with~~ the ~~BDSM motto "Safe, Sane~~ and ~~Consensual" I like to also~~	+	If it turns you on--or might turn you on--to drip molten wax from
-	~~consider as key words~~: ~~Trust, Caring and Respect.~~	+	a burning candle onto the pink and delicate bits of your partner
		+	here are a couple of things to remember:

-	~~In regard to these latter three words~~ it ~~isn't enough to simply not do~~	+	1) Test it out first on yourself. Drip wax from the candle onto
-	the ~~wrong thing, people need~~ to ~~see you doing~~ the right ~~thing~~.	+	the back of your own hand to work out the right height,
		+
		+	2) Some candles produce hotter wax than others. Always test new
		+	types of candle on yourself. Beeswax, in particular, has a high
		+	melting point and might best be avoided,
		+
		+	3) Getting wax out of hair (eg. pubic) can be a hassle,
		+
		+	4) A thin layer of oil on the skin can make wax much easier to
		+	get off,
		+
		+	5) The colouring and perfumes added to candles generally increase
		+	the wax temperature. Good advice is to stick to plain, uncoloured
		+	and unscented candles for the actual dripping,
		+
		+	6) Don't set fire to your house accidentally.
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