| Introduction
It's important to observe that people don't engage in BDSM activities or relationships for the physical side of it. By that I mean that they don't go and get a flogging because they like the pain and want red marks. Nor does someone let themselves be tied up because they like the feeling of having their arms pinned to their sides.
In all cases, people engage in BDSM because it provides gateways to powerful emotional, psychological, or spiritual experiences.
This site is less about the how and more about the why and the what.
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