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Erotic hypnosisErotic hypnosis is the use of hypnosis to modify someone's sexual feelings or attitudes with the goal of increasing sexual satisfaction. A number of the characteristics of hypnosis are very suitable for use in an intimate sexual context to create interesting and exciting situations for both the hypnotist and his or her subject. In particular, hypnosis can be used:
Erotic hypnosis differs from hypnofetish in that while a hypnofetish enthusiast finds hypnosis sexual exciting per se, in erotic hypnosis the characteristics of hypnosis are used to enhance sexual feelings and experience. An important aspect of this for many people is that of control. It can be very exciting to have your partner and their sexual feelings largely under your control or, from the other side, to be sexually under the control of your partner. This alone can be very arousing, and exploration of this control aspect of hypnosis can add significantly to the thrill, even beyond the sex itself.
Learning to hypnotiseActually hypnotising someone is relatively straight forward and most people can learn how to do it. The process is described in this article. If you can find someone who is already skilled at hypnosis then try to get them to teach you. Alternatively, there are a number of good books which will teach you how to hypnotise and you'll see random book selections on the topic appear above each article on this site as you browse around. You could also consider my book, Look Into My Eyes, whose first part teaches you how to hypnotise your partner, give them command and suggestions while they are in the trance, and then wake them up, and whose second part has numerous scripts and examples of ways you can use your new found skill sexually with your partner. Finally, if you're particularly keen, check out your local professional hypnotherapist association. They should be able to point you to proper training courses. Post-hypnotic suggestionsPost-hypnotic suggestions are very useful in erotic hypnosis and can be used to trigger an unexpected (to the subject) sexual response, or to cause them to do some unexpected (again, to them) sexually-related activity, such as becoming horny, or stripping off their clothes, or performing oral sex on their partner. A post-hypnotic suggestion is a command given to the subject while they are in a trance, and which they follow after you have woken them up. This can be in response to a trigger, in the case of some specific action (such as to dance or to feel horny when they hear a particular song), or can be a general instruction such as to be enthusiastic about trying anal sex. It's important to realise that, as often mentioned in relation to hypnosis, you can't get someone to do something which they strongly object to, but you can use it to help them overcome any fears or embarrassment they may have about various activities. More on post-hypnotic suggestion can be found in this article and articles to which it links. Depth of tranceA number of factors contribute to how well someone in a trance will respond sexually. One of the main ones is the depth of trance. This is going to determine how strongly they will respond to the suggestions and commands from their partner. In general, the deeper the trance the better they will respond. This, in turn, is going to depend on how much confidence and trust they have in their partner, and how much experience they have in being hypnotised. The first time someone is hypnotised they probably won't go into as deep a trance as they will in later trances. This is because being a good hypnotic subject is part natural predisposition and part learned. And the more experience a subject has with a particular hypnotist, the more deeply they will respond as they develop familiarity and trust with the way the hypnotist works. See also |
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