The Control Book consistently rates well in
Amazon best-seller lists. Check out the
Ownership and M/s books
list where it tends to sit in the top 10, and the more
general BDSM Book List
where you'll usually find it in the top 30.
Understanding Submission (1998) is an
article that has resonated with many people over the last few
years. Although many of my ideas have matured and deepened since
I first wrote it, I think it worth presenting here as a way of
viewing the different faces of submission.